What is your impact?
Hello Friend.
"If your presence does not make any impact, your absence will make no difference" anonymous.
We all (me inclusive) like to have people we call friends. We give them different nomenclatures like casual friends, family friends, bosom friends, true friends, business friends, church/mosque friends, and not to forget childhood friends and the host of other names.
Inasmuch as I am for having friends and having plenty of them, the question however is, what have they imparted into our lives? Yeah! I am not ignorant of the fact that we (especially in Africa) holds a believe that, we should not be friends with someone because of what we want to benefit from them vice versa. In theory, I am for that opinion, but in practice, it is not a correct notion especially when deliberate living is involved. It is a false believe because when are in need, we would want our friends to be around us or be there to assist us in one form or the other. In view of my earlier point, we must be deliberate in our choice of friendship and in relationship too.
The person we call our friends now especially the ones with whom we share our secrets and life, what are they imparting into our lives or what are we imparting into theirs? If they are not imparting or we are not imparting anything into their lives, it is high time we reviewed such associations and prune it where necessary, but in doing so do it with love. Move with persons you know would help you achieve your purpose on earth. Move with persons that are goal oriented. Move with persons that are in pursuit of success and that can inspire or push you to succeed. Let me state at this point that I for making few friends that will help me fulfill my purpose on earth than having plenty of friends that are heading no where.
A life of purposeful living is a life that is deliberate in choice of making friends, because not all who you call your friends are actually helpers of fulfilling purpose, some can even help to derail you from it. Be wise and make make only good friends. Guard against sentiments in the choice of friendship, the grand rule should be for them to either inspire you to succeed or you are doing same to them.
Make friends with sincere, genuine and mutual benefits.
I wish you wisdom in your choice of friendship.
Thank you. #upgradetoaccelerateseries
Simon
Please feel free to leave a comment and follow me.For any question or counselling, you can email me at ojonugwa416@gmail.com or call +234 8134863435. Looking forward to hearing from you.
"If your presence does not make any impact, your absence will make no difference" anonymous.
We all (me inclusive) like to have people we call friends. We give them different nomenclatures like casual friends, family friends, bosom friends, true friends, business friends, church/mosque friends, and not to forget childhood friends and the host of other names.
Inasmuch as I am for having friends and having plenty of them, the question however is, what have they imparted into our lives? Yeah! I am not ignorant of the fact that we (especially in Africa) holds a believe that, we should not be friends with someone because of what we want to benefit from them vice versa. In theory, I am for that opinion, but in practice, it is not a correct notion especially when deliberate living is involved. It is a false believe because when are in need, we would want our friends to be around us or be there to assist us in one form or the other. In view of my earlier point, we must be deliberate in our choice of friendship and in relationship too.
The person we call our friends now especially the ones with whom we share our secrets and life, what are they imparting into our lives or what are we imparting into theirs? If they are not imparting or we are not imparting anything into their lives, it is high time we reviewed such associations and prune it where necessary, but in doing so do it with love. Move with persons you know would help you achieve your purpose on earth. Move with persons that are goal oriented. Move with persons that are in pursuit of success and that can inspire or push you to succeed. Let me state at this point that I for making few friends that will help me fulfill my purpose on earth than having plenty of friends that are heading no where.
A life of purposeful living is a life that is deliberate in choice of making friends, because not all who you call your friends are actually helpers of fulfilling purpose, some can even help to derail you from it. Be wise and make make only good friends. Guard against sentiments in the choice of friendship, the grand rule should be for them to either inspire you to succeed or you are doing same to them.
Make friends with sincere, genuine and mutual benefits.
I wish you wisdom in your choice of friendship.
Thank you. #upgradetoaccelerateseries
Simon
Please feel free to leave a comment and follow me.For any question or counselling, you can email me at ojonugwa416@gmail.com or call +234 8134863435. Looking forward to hearing from you.
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